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		<title>PowerPoint is not a speech writing tool</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 21:16:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most, if not all business professionals that I work with make the mistake of writing their presentation in PowerPoint. It&#8217;s understandable, up to a point, when everyone is squeezed for time and who wants to write out a speech and then determine what should be on the PowerPoint slides? Unfortunately what happens is the slides [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most, if not all business professionals that I work with make the mistake of writing their presentation in PowerPoint. It&#8217;s understandable, up to a point, when everyone is squeezed for time and who wants to write out a speech and then determine what should be on the PowerPoint slides? </p>
<p>Unfortunately what happens is the slides contain the entire speech. If there was no one presenting the slides the audience could still understand the presentation simply by reading each slide as they are projected on to the screen. We have all experienced presentations where the speaker simply read every word on the slide and added nothing more&#8230; </p>
<p>Your slides need to enhance what you are saying, if they don&#8217;t &#8211; dump them! </p>
<p>The easiest way to avoid slides that contain too much text is to prepare properly. I find the best way is to brainstorm using post it notes (that&#8217;s right &#8211; a simple pen and paper method). You can move ideas around, get creative, and allow you to resist the urge to write your entire presentation on the slides. </p>
<p>Try and let me know how yo go&#8230; I know you will find it a liberating experience.</p>
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		<title>5 reasons you need great presentation skills</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jul 2011 22:45:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In almost every job description there is the requirement that the person filling the role must have &#8220;excellent communication skills&#8221;. Unfortunately in many cases the communication skills of the employee are average at best &#8211; it is the reason why there are so many courses and books on improving your public speaking and presentation skills. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In almost every job description there is the requirement that the person filling the role must have &#8220;excellent communication skills&#8221;. Unfortunately in many cases the communication skills of the employee are average at best &#8211; it is the reason why there are so many courses and books on improving your public speaking and presentation skills. </p>
<p>Aside from what skills a job description claims you should have, why should you have great public speaking and presentation skills?</p>
<p>1) Gain respect from colleagues<br />
When you can stand up in meetings and present confidently to your colleagues you doing something they are fearful of invariably you will gain their respect. Your ability to deliver a presentation will set you apart from your colleagues and project the aura of a leader. People respect those who take on the leadership mantle &#8211; and you can gain their respect by being prepared to deliver effective presentations in the workplace.</p>
<p>2) Build your repuation within the industry<br />
Apart from gaining a reputation within your own organization, if you have great speaking and presentation skills you can put yourself forward to speak at industry conferences. By delivering presentations at conferences you will develop a name and reputation, gaining credibility and recognition. When other companies look to hire someone with your skill set you will find them calling you first (with a great pay offer to complement your skills).</p>
<p>3) Impress senior management<br />
There are few things more daunting than presenting to the senior executives of your company. In a few minutes you can kill your reputation or you can transform yourself into a company superstar with your presentation. I know what I&#8217;d rather do. People naturally reemember someone who was bad or someone who was great. You&#8217;ll find it much easier to get a promotion if they remember you for the right reasons. </p>
<p>4) Selling to your customers<br />
Now you don&#8217;t have to be in a official sales role to make sales presentations. Almost every company department today has customer, either other internal departments or actual cash paying customers. Similar to the reasons above, you need to build their confidence in you and enhance your repuation with your customers through your presentations. If you give effective presentations you are more likely to gain the agreement on projects or purchase from you because they have confidence and understanding that you can deliver. </p>
<p>5) Gain confidence to stretch yourself<br />
Maybe the biggest reason why you need to have great presentation and speaking skills for your career is confidence. Those people who have mastered the art of public speaking are more confident. They are prepared to try new things and back their ability to master new skills and do n, more challenging roles.</p>
<p>Self confidence is priceless!</p>
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		<title>Ensuring you use appropriate language in your presentations</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jun 2011 06:20:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Using appropriate language in your presentations is not a difficult task &#8211; yet many presentations are delivered with language that is innappropriate for the audience. Why? Usually, the presenter hasn’t taken the time to prepare properly by following some simple steps. The process is not long or arduous, but they do take a little thought [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">Using appropriate language in your presentations is not a difficult task &#8211; yet many presentations are delivered with language that is innappropriate for the audience. Why? Usually, the presenter hasn’t taken the time to prepare properly by following some simple steps.</p>
<p>The process is not long or arduous, but they do take a little thought and consideration as you develop your presentation.</p>
<p><strong>1) Do you understand your audience?</strong><br />
The first step in ensuring you use appropriate language is to understand your audience. Can you identify what their understanding is of the subject you will be presenting? Do you know what views they may already have are? Do you know their background &#8211; how easily will they understand what you are about to discuss with them? How old are they? Is your audience predominately male or female?</p>
<p>This is a sample of the questions you can ask to ensure you understand who will be sitting in the room when you present. You need to ensure, before you start writing your presentation that you can answer enough of these questions so you can confidently state to yourself that you understand your audience.</p>
<p><strong>2) Frame the presentation in their language &#8211; make it relevant to the audiences objective</strong><br />
Once you understand your audience steps 2 and 3 becomes much easier. Step 2 is simply framing the presentation in the language of your audience. For example, if you are trying to sell a project to your management. You could describe to management the technical benefits of the project. This may win them over, but more than likely, they will nod their heads and go “Yes, that’s nice but we have other priorities”. Management isn’t concerned with technical perfection. Instead you need to present to them that the project will demonstrate value to them, it could be reduced costs, or improved efficiencies, etc&#8230;</p>
<p>Frame the presentation around what your audience wants or needs to hear.</p>
<p><strong>3) Avoid jargon</strong><br />
The most common mistake in technical presentations is to use jargon. Its a mistake to believe that just because you know what a technical term or acronym means that your audience will (even if you describe it once). This applies even in situations where you  are presenting to other technical specialists. Unless you are confident that the audience you are presenting to understands EXACTLY what you are saying when you use “jargon” avoid it. It may mean that you have to “dumb down” your presentation. Your audience wont appreciate not understanding (or worse misunderstanding) you.</span></div>
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		<title>Do you use appropriate language in your presentations?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jun 2011 22:27:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let&#8217;s be clear from the beginning, I&#8217;m not referring to foul language here. I&#8217;m assuming that you have enough respect for your audience that you don&#8217;t swear or use other socially inappropriate words when you speak to them. What we will discuss here relates to language that your audience understands and relates to in your [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let&#8217;s be clear from the beginning, I&#8217;m not referring to foul language here. I&#8217;m assuming that you have enough respect for your audience that you don&#8217;t swear or use other socially inappropriate words when you speak to them. What we will discuss here relates to language that your audience understands and relates to in your presentations. A common mistake by inexperienced presenters is to use language which is not understood ny their audience. Traditionally this has been a common problem in technical presentations, where the engineer will deliver a talk that only rocket scientists can understand. But the issue Is not confined to technical presentations. Too often management and sales presentations are afflicted with inappropriate language as well.</p>
<p>What do I mean? </p>
<p>Imagine an engineer, lets call him Bill, describing a engineering proces to a group of non technical managerss&#8230; Chances are you seeing a Bill standing in front of an audience delivering a presentation heavy in information and technical terms. The audience of non technical managers are all sitting there with glazed eyes because they have no idea what Bill is saying to them, but they are too polite (or proud) to interrupt him and tell him the truth. The problem is Bill has delivered a technical presentation believing he could use his engineering language and everyone would understand him. He needs to use the language that will be understood by his audience. If he&#8217;s presenting to engineers he can use engineering language, but if he&#8217;s presenting to management he needs to use language that management will understand and relate to.</p>
<p>How? We&#8217;ll cover this in the next entry&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Internalize or memorize your presentations</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 May 2011 22:05:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week I made my stand up comedy debut. And, even with the experience I have presenting and speaking to large groups of people the nerves were still there in force. I have the video, and I hope to soon put it on you tube so you can all see my five minutes under the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week I made my stand up comedy debut. And, even with the experience I have presenting and speaking to large groups of people the nerves were still there in force. I have the video, and I hope to soon put it on you tube so you can all see my five minutes under the comedy spotlight. </p>
<p>During my set I experienced something I have not felt for quite a few years&#8230; I started to think about my next words.</p>
<p>Now, that might sound a little strange. But for me a presentation is internalized, and I dont consciously think what my next sentence will be. Instead I let if flow naturally like a conversation. What happened last Wednesday night, about three quarters of the way through my routine, was I swapped from following the internal script inside my heart to thinking about what I wanted to say in my head. The result &#8211; I lost my way for several seconds.</p>
<p>The challenge with &#8220;thinking&#8221; your presentations is you have to be word perfect. The minute you stray away from the script inside your mind your brain doesn&#8217;t know where it should head to next. Whereas if you can internalize the key points or themes of what you want to cover you can simply talk to the theme without being tied to knowing exactly which word you need to say next to maintain course.</p>
<p>I challenge you to internalize your next presentation rather than memorize. It will free your mind and your delivery to enjoy the process of sharing a presentation.</p>
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		<title>Essential Public Speaking Skills you need to impress</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 May 2011 22:05:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[To deliver a presentation that will impress your audience you need more than confidence. It also requires more than a mastery of vocal variety, gestures, and your ability to handle a PowerPoint presentation. There are several soft skills that need to be developed that will endear you to an audience more than if you master [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To deliver a presentation that will impress your audience you need more than confidence. It also requires more than a mastery of vocal variety, gestures, and your ability to handle a PowerPoint presentation. There are several soft skills that need to be developed that will endear you to an audience more than if you master all of the other skills.</p>
<p>These soft skills are:</p>
<p>1. Empathy and understanding</p>
<p>To change an audiences thinking you need to understand where to start. In other words what are the members of your audience thinking and feeling right now. This is crucial to knowing the level to &#8220;pitch&#8221; your presentation. If you only know your destination and you have no idea where your journey originates the chances of successfully navigating are almost zero. A presenter who can tap into the current thought processes and emotions of an audience stands a far better chance of navigating their audience to his or her intended destination.</p>
<p>2. Organization</p>
<p>Organization is important on two separate levels. Firstly your presentation must have clarity of thought in relation to the ideas your are presenting. If your ideas are jumbled then by the time your presentation reaches its conclusion the minds of your audience will also be jumbled. Secondly, a presenter who is organized in their preparation will also perform better than a presenter who isn&#8217;t. Plan your time so you get to the meeting room early, don&#8217;t be tweaking your presentation as your audience arrives, meet and greet your audience. In other words get yourself organized so that when show time arrives your only focus is on delivering a great presentation.</p>
<p>3. Time management</p>
<p>This is somewhat related to organization, especially with your pre presentation preparations. But it also applies to the delivery of your presentation. If you have twenty minutes to deliver your presentation then stick to twenty minutes. Nothing will alienate an audience more than a presenter who believes that their presentation and what they have to talk about is the number one priority for everybody. Respect your audience and they will respect what you have to say. There&#8217;s never a  good reason to go over time.</p>
<p>These &#8220;soft skills&#8221; aren&#8217;t what you&#8217;ll find written about in most presentation skills text books, but they are as important as your ability to use gestures effectively or your ability to use your voice to express passion. Don&#8217;t forget to develop your soft skills when you speak.</p>
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		<title>Dealing with difficult presentations</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 May 2011 22:02:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In life things don&#8217;t always go to plan. Presentations are no different. Inevitably, at some point, you will deliver a bad presentation. It&#8217;s never enjoyable but it you can make it valuable. Let me expand on that. It is valuable provided you take the time to reflect upon what happened and dissect what actually happened. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In life things don&#8217;t always go to plan. Presentations are no different. Inevitably, at some point, you will deliver a bad presentation. It&#8217;s never enjoyable but it you can make it valuable. Let me expand on that. It is valuable provided you take the time to reflect upon what happened and dissect what actually happened.</p>
<p>What went went wrong?<br />
Rarely does everything go wrong. Take the time to isolate exactly what didn&#8217;t work. Think about everything that happened during the presentation, your preparation, and how the audience reacted. Was your preparation the cause of the problem? Did the room setup cause issues because some of your audience couldn&#8217;t see the PowerPoint presentation? Was a joke you said misunderstood? </p>
<p>There are a myriad of question you can ask yourself. Ultimately you need to isolate the reasons the your presentation didn&#8217;t have the intended impact.</p>
<p>What will you do differently next time?<br />
Now you have identified the causes you can identify the solutions for next time you deliver a presentation. It could be as simple as arriving at the meeting room earlier to ensure that all the seats can see the screen through to taking more time in your preparation to ensure you fully understand the audiences need.</p>
<p>Identify a strategy or technique that you will apply to your next Presentation.</p>
<p>What did go well?<br />
Finally, after you have dissected what went wrong and what you will do differently next time around take some time to reflect on what did work. Invariably for every one thing that doesn&#8217;t work you will find three things that did. Don&#8217;t allow the bad experiences taint your view of your skills. Remind yourself that you can do this, you are able to deliver presentations successfully, and you do have the skills to speak in front of groups of people. </p>
<p>Use any dark cloud that hangs over your presentations to your advantage &#8211; find the silver lining and grow.  </p>
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		<title>Preparing your presentation</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2011 07:20:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you are asked to give a presentation what do you do? Are you like most people who immediately dive into PowerPoint and start generating slides? If that describes you &#8211; don&#8217;t worry you are no different to 90% of people who give PowerPoint presentations. The conventional method is responsible for the text heavy slides [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you are asked to give a presentation what do you do? Are you like most people who immediately dive into PowerPoint and start generating slides? If that describes you &#8211; don&#8217;t worry you are no different to 90% of people who give PowerPoint presentations.</p>
<p>The conventional method is responsible for the text heavy slides seen in too many PowerPoint presentations. How can we change this?</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been inspired by a book by Garr Reynolds called Presentation Zen. In the book he advocates putting the technology down and to start drafting your presentation in pencil. I&#8217;ve experimented with the process for the last couple of PowerPoint presentations I&#8217;ve given and I&#8217;ve had a more enjoyable time preparing the presentation, a better reaction from the audience, and better outcomes after I&#8217;ve finished.</p>
<p>Check out the book and let me know what you think of the process Garr recommends.</p>
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		<title>Good Speaking Manners</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Apr 2011 07:30:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Time is the most precious commodity we have. I don&#8217;t know anyone who doesn&#8217;t express a desire to find more time in their day. When we deliver a presentation we need to be acutely aware of this. Do you remember the last time you were in the audience and the speaker went past his or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Time is the most precious commodity we have. I don&#8217;t know anyone who doesn&#8217;t express a desire to find more time in their day. When we deliver a presentation we need to be acutely aware of this. Do you remember the last time you were in the audience and the speaker went past his or her allotted time? How did you feel? If you&#8217;re like me you would have started to get a little frustrated and annoyed.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s bad manners to over stay your welcome on stage!</p>
<p>By going overtime you force someone else to cut something out their speech to make up for the lost time or, even worse, you make the whole audience late because you wanted to indulge yourself on stage.</p>
<p>When you are invited to speak to a meeting always ask how long you have been allocated. And, NEVER go longer than you were invited to speak for. It&#8217;s just good manners.</p>
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		<title>Three Points to help Calm your Public Speaking Nerves</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Apr 2011 20:26:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[fear of public speaking]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[For many the thought of giving a speech at a wedding or standing in front of a your colleagues at work to deliver a presentation induces steroid enhanced butterflies to form in your stomach. Sadly, for too many, the result is they avoid situations where they may be asked or expected to speak in public. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="_mcePaste"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">For many the thought of giving a speech at a wedding or standing in front of a your colleagues at work to deliver a presentation induces steroid enhanced butterflies to form in your stomach. Sadly, for too many, the result is they avoid situations where they may be asked or expected to speak in public. I have friends, who before they received training on public speaking, avoided promotions at work because they didn&#8217;t want to take on a job that **might** entail delivering a presentation. Aside from the self esteem that accompanies the ability to speak in public, what did this cost them in lost income?</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">At some point there will come a time where you will not be able to avoid having to give a speech. It could be at a wedding, or your boss taps you on the shoulder and tells you that he needs you to visit a client and make a presentation to them. You can&#8217;t hide forever &#8211; at some point you will have to step into the spot light for your turn to speak, so how can you control your nerves? There&#8217;s a couple of things I want you to remember which will help bring your butterflies under control&#8230;</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>1. Your audience wants you to succeed</strong></span></div>
<div id="_mcePaste"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">As novice speakers it can be easy to convince yourself  that your audience is going to get perverse enjoyment watching you struggle on stage. Nothing could be further from the truth! Think back to when you last saw someone deliver a speech&#8230; Did you want to see them fail? Chances are you didn&#8217;t want to see them bomb. It&#8217;s painful for the speaker and the audience when a someone is struggling to get through their speech. Your audiences want to see you succeed when you deliver your speech. It&#8217;s a much more enjoyable experience for everybody when the speaker is able to deliver their presentation coherently rather than struggling through their speech.</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">Remember, your audience knows the best result for them is for you to succeed in delivering your speech. Use their positive energy and thoughts to help calm your nerves. Your audience really does want you to succeed!</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>2. Your audience doesn&#8217;t expect a superb speech</strong></span></div>
<div id="_mcePaste"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">There are a few people blessed with the natural ability to captivate and inspire audiences effortlessly. They are few and far between, and audiences know this. Those speakers command big ticket entry prices just to see them speak. Unless you are charging vast sums of money for people to see you  speak you don&#8217;t need to convince yourself you need to speak at the same level. Your audience wants to see that you&#8217;ve taken the time to prepare a speech for them, but they don&#8217;t expect that it will be a life altering occasion for them.</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">You&#8217;re audience doesn&#8217;t expect you to deliver a speech of oratorical brilliance that would make Winston Churchill or JFK proud. They simply expect that you&#8217;ve put some effort in and you do your best. Keep your expectations of yourself real!</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>3. Your speech is just a conversation with many people</strong></span></div>
<div id="_mcePaste"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">The final point I will cover is for you to remember what a speech or presentation really is. It&#8217;s simply a conversation. I doubt you get nervous when you talk to one or two people. A speech involves the same principles as a conversation between friends &#8211; all that changes is the number of people. The speakers who are most enjoyable to watch and listen to are those that make you feel like you are in a conversation. Why not take this and use it to your advantage&#8230; If you don&#8217;t get butterflies when talking to one or two people remind yourself as you are about to step into the spotlight that a speech is no different &#8211; you are simply there to have a conversation.</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">If you can remind yourself of this it will help settle any nerves that you are experiencing.</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">Our aim is not to remove nerves completely &#8211; a few small butterflies will give you an edge when speaking. The points we&#8217;ve discussed here will help you take the steroid infused butterflies that are controlling your emotions and bring them under control. While others are avoiding the opportunity to speak in public you can take it  - who knows what other opportunities that might lead to??</span></div>
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